Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Difficulties, not to ashamed to seek help

Everyone has trouble when someone pursues everything39s philosophy of life, with himself always a difficult person to Handbags UK deal with in silence, never seek assistance from others. This person is unwilling to give someone else the trouble of thought are valuable, but problem-solving efficiency and the extent of problem-solving is not necessarily the fastest and best.
I know such a person. He would not be any instruments, not to sing, nor composer, however, he is a national music publications editor-in-chief, is the well-known music critic. When I ask him is how to take music to comment on this path, he told me about this personal experience of the following story.
Last century, the seventies, he had just graduated from the University when journalists at a newspaper. One day, he isan article, editorial director told him to go to the office. Officers told him that this evening there is a very important concert, but music newspaper commentator has sudden illness, is a hospital surgery. Therefore, the decision to send him to attend concerts, and wrote a commentator39s article, published tomorrow.
He is not a study of music, which know nothing about, how can write a comment on this article? Want to refuse it, not the courage want to accept it, should not competent afraid. Directorsee him and asked him what there is are not difficult. He said I am afraid unable mission. Hearing Officer did not expect smiled said Nobody make life difficult for the Huoyanshan, the ship to be straightened out Qiaotou. You these college students, mind faster, I believe you will overcome difficulties, to write a pretty decent commentator39s article. And, the Director, no room for him to say anything else, they sent him out.
In the evening, of music know nothing about him frown sat in the theater, and theater the other side, he clearly saw another daily music commentator. That guy,the eyes, head slightly with the rhythm of rock music, like a pair of thought-out plan. Tomorrow, their newspapers are bound to be on his article. However, their own how to get the mission completed?
Approaching the end of the concert, his head like a computer at the same rapid way. Suddenly, he thought of a way out.
Stage on the big screen just one way or another, he immediately rushed backstage and found a famous violin virtuoso. She has reported him to the home to illustrate the difficulties facing his own and frankly to her for help. He said in fact, I was trying to ask you to help me write this article commentator. I want to, you will assist me that the green hand.
Violinist smiled at him, she drank a saliva, then talk to speak up.
While listening to him on her while to remember Notebook Express. Think at his heart My fellow reporter who, regardless of how his literary talent, and his experience there is how deep his understanding of music there is, however thorough, and his opinion of how there is fresh, he can not write better than my article. up in the music because he can not be more than the attainments of the musicians in front of me. Originally, I and the gap between him are enormous, but I was standing on the shoulders of the well-known musicians on by her, and two people with the intelligence, and one of a person39s musical knowledge is clearly much stronger than him.
The next day, met with the two reviews simultaneously newspaper article. Insiders are shocked by the discovery of a new music reviews new star.
Red after the gun fight, let him leading newspapers as full-time music journalist. Him to use his first successful experience, coupled with the constant study and study a few years later, he has gradually become recognized by U.S. music critics, as well as final as the national music magazine39s editor-in-chief.
I life, you should not have their own power and by the time you can noteverything. In a difficult situation at the time, as long as you put their difficult frankly tell others, and sincere help to others, was the callers who are not normally stand by with folded arms, and from the perspective of helping others, helping others help others than to obtain more satisfaction.
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The temptation of a candy

This is a quiet afternoon. Apple flower fragrance, filled in the United States, Texas, a town primary school campus. One of a class of eight students, were taken to the Principal Teacher of the next to a big empty house. Windows of the bright shining, the birds, flying over the traces can be seen clearly, while the students hold down the strong Dior UK sense of curiosity, your breath waiting to happen all the time, the teacher led a strange middle-aged man walking away.
He looked kindly came between the children, give everyone a packaging made a very fine candy, and tell them you belong to this candy can be eaten at any time, but if I come back Who can insist later to eat, it will be two of the same candy as an incentive. Then he turned to leave together and teachers here.
Wait for a long, promise are distant, and the heart candies but Zhenzhen be absolutely sure to put at the front of each child.
Time one minute passed. This candy to lure children is also growing, along with the window of the apple flower fragrance, this temptation is almost irresistible.
There is a child off a fine, put sugar into his mouth and issued a click one39s tongue sound. Under his influence, there is some kids could not have been ripping out the exquisite. But there is still more than half of the children do everything possible to control themselves, there has been such a stranger to come back. It was a summer vacation is also more than 40 minutes long. But Stranger eventually achieve its own commitment to wait for those who pay child been duly rewarded.
In fact, this is a called the delay gratification psychological experiment. Later, the Stranger full track of these children for 20 years. He found, be able to Dior Bag delay gratification of students, mathematics, language score than those studentsaverage 20 points. Take part in work, they had not before the difficult bow out of the woods always be successful.
Readily available to resist the temptation to look through our efforts to get the promise, is not an easy task. Control in real life, and then encountered the same problem, perhaps it is not hard to make the right choice.
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